Sunday 1 December 2013

Garry Fredick Sidock

We mourn the loss of a friend! Garry will be missed for his wisdom and compassion for others...especially those who struggled. Garry was a great teacher to those who took the time to know him.

As a community we mourn! There will be a Memorial Service held at 666 Princess St., nightlight starting at 6pm on Monday, December 2, 2013.  Garry's family will be attending.  All are invited to come and share memories and thoughts of Garry.

We will continue to keep his family in our thoughts and prayers.
Here is a copy of his obituary.

Sidock ; Garry Fredrick
Passed away in Kingston, Ontario on November 25, 2013. Garry age 57 years. Dear son of the late Michael and Delta Sidock. Dear father of Emmylou (Shawn Thompson), Annalise (Scott Jessup) and Blaine Sidock (Jayme Hass).

Saturday 2 November 2013

Quotes Heard at The Mess Recently...

"If I'm not here, I'm sick."

"You guys are my family..."

"I'd be in jail if I didn't have The Mess."

"I miss you when you not here."

"Thanks for listening. I've been really struggling this week."

"What colour should I use?" -  "I don't know, but you'll figure it out.  You're really good with colour."

"I'm excited for the art show...and nervous.  Do you think people will look at my work?"

"See you next week!!"

Here's an article from the EMC Kingston Heritage.
Fostering Community and Friendship Through Art

Friday 18 October 2013

A Big THANK YOU to Big HEARTED Teens!!

A BIG THANK YOU goes out to some amazing Grade 9 students! 3 young ladies had a birthday party and instead of receiving gifts they gave gifts. Donations of art supplies, food, gift cards and cash were collected for The Mess! THANK YOU Ladies for thinking of us and THANK YOU to your friends for being so generous!! Your thoughtfulness has made a huge impact on us and has touched our hearts!

Thursday 10 October 2013

3rd Annual Art Show, Sale & Silent Auction


The Mess is hosting our  3rd Annual Art Show, Sale & Silent Auction

Please keep this date aside to come and see what The Mess has been creating!!  

It promises to be an exciting exhibition and sale of original artwork as well an opportunity to mingle with the artists.  We look forward to meeting the many people who support The Mess in so many different ways.  

Light refreshments will be served!!
Admission: donation at the door

The Art Show will take place on Saturday, November 9th from 3-6pm in Gill Hall of St. Andrew's Presbyterian Church, 130 Clergy St., Kingston. 



Monday 7 October 2013

"The Hope and Discover Artisans"


If you're in Kingston this week, Hope you have time to check out the Art Show at 255 Princess St! The Mess is honoured to participate in showing some of our art work. Thank you Adriana Farcas!

http://www.thewhig.com/2013/10/03/group-unveils-inaugural-art-show

Monday 30 September 2013

Check it out this new website!!...an article posted about The Mess

Hear a little more about what The Mess is all about!

Tomorrow is LAUNCH DAY at our new location, St. Andrew's, 130 Clergy Street, Kingston, ON!!

www.dojustice.crcna.org

Wednesday 11 September 2013

THE MESS IS ON THE MOVE!! We are about to get 'messier'!

 That's right we are moving to Gil Hall at St. Andrew's Presbyterian Church, 130 Clergy Street! 

We will be open from 10-2pm on Tuesdays and Thursdays! 

Our launch day is October 1st! 

The moving day is September 26 from 10-2pm. If you would like to help us move as community come down to 666 Princess St. on September 26 at 10am. We will pack up and move into Gil Hall where we will settle in by 2pm....Pizza Party & Road Trip!! 

Thank you to St. Lawerence Pools for sponsoring our move and sending us a truck!



Monday 26 August 2013

Golf Tournament at Rivendell Golf Club on September 15






You're Invited!!

Golf Tournament at Rivendell Golf Club, to be held on September 15, 2013 starting at 3pm.

Please note that we had to reschedule so this is a new date.

This fun event to benefit The Mess will be a 9 hole scramble format with dinner to follow.

The cost of this event for members will be $32 and $60 for non members which includes 9 hole green fees, 10 prize tickets and a delicious meal.

This will be a great evening for you to see what The Mess is all about and win some amazing works of art!

Rivendell is a short 20 min drive north of the 401.

The new registration deadline is September 9th and the fee must accompany your registration. Carts may be reserved by calling Rivendell Golf Course for an additional fee of $7/pp.

For more info please contact Cathy Goodfellow at Riverdell or Sandi 613.484.3886.


Monday 5 August 2013

Blessings for our Administration efforts!

A Big THANK YOU to...
Canadian Council of Christian Charities!!
The Mess was selected to receive a DVD and 10 books on "Serving as a Board Member" Great timing for us, as this is a conversation we've been having this year!

We are blessed to receive this resource!

Blessings for our Administration efforts!

Monday 15 July 2013

The Secret Kingston You'll Never See


It is our challenge as The Mess to be a creative community growing qualitatively and quantitatively in compassion, grace and love for all people! 


Here is an article from "The Whig-Standard," written by, Edward O'Brien that highlights the great need for building community and relationships with the greatest in need in our city!
The secret Kingston you'll never see

Wednesday 3 July 2013

Doug Neilson 1956-2013



We will remember Doug as a quiet, kind person with a gentle heart and a calming presence!

"One thing I ask from the Lord, this only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the Lord and to seek him in his temple.  For in the day of trouble he will keep me safe in his dwelling; he will hide me in the shelter of his tabernacle and set me high upon a rock."  -Psalm 27:4-5

On Thursday, July 4, from 6-9pm at nightlight, 666 Princess St.
The Mess and nighlight will be hosting an "An Evening Dedicated to Doug".  
This will be an opportunity to speak with others about what Doug has come to mean to our community.  
If you knew Doug, you are invited!  If you didn't know Doug and would like to offer your support, you are invited!

Thursday 13 June 2013

Huge Indoor/Outdoor Garage Sale...Rain or Shine!!

Why don’t you sort out…
“The Mess”
 in support of our open arts studio.
1pm - 6pm Friday June 14th
and
8am – 1pm Saturday June 15th

The Mess is hosting a garage sale at City Christian Centre (1287 Woodbine Road, corner of Colin's Bay & Woodbine Rd.) to raise funds for our program.  Donations may be dropped off between 9am and 1pm on the 14th or if items are large we can arrange to pick them up from your home.  For pick up email us at themesskingston@yahoo.ca  
Hope to see you this weekend!!

Wednesday 5 June 2013

"Wounded and now Mended"

A few weeks ago, some of us were talking at The Mess.  Someone mentioned how it is difficult to describe to people what it is that we do at The Mess from day to day.  "You know I try to put it into words and it sounds like this, 'We make art, drink coffee and hang out.' I would like to share with people how meaningful it is and I end up just saying, 'Well you'll have to just come and see for yourself!'"

We experienced a situation recently, that beautifully illustrates what we see happening at The Mess as we grow towards being healthy community.

We arrived early to set up our space at 666 and soon discovered a piece of art had been vandalized.  Someone had slashed and punctured a canvas that was hanging on the wall.  We were all shocked and horrified that such a thing had
happened!  "Do people not know what the artwork means to all of us?",  "Is this a personal attack on me?",  "Was someone hurting so much that they did this to a canvas instead of another person?",  "What am I going to do when I find the person who did this?",  "What was this person thinking?",  "Did someone think at all?"  These were some of the questions flying around the room.  Emotions were running high! We were raw, hurting and all sharing in this pain together.

The artist whose piece had been damaged was so upset he suggest we just throw it out!  No one supported that idea. Instead, we started talking about restoration.  A conversation took place with about six to ten different people giving suggestions on how best set about repairing this torn canvas.  A plan developed and a few people executed the restoration process.  Hope started to return and excitement began to build.  The work ensued for about three hours.  When the patching was complete the piece was held high for examination. Everyone admired the work that went into the resurrection of this masterpiece.  The artist looked at the canvas carefully and noticed, "It has a scar...it's wounded!  That's what I'm going to call the piece, Wounded...no wait a minute...I'm calling it Mended.  It once was wounded but now it's mended!

We were all in awe!  We could feel earth and heaven overlap.  

We spoke about how that is what happens at The Mess. We all come through the doors wounded, but with prayers and support for one another, we become mended masterpieces.

Tuesday 4 June 2013

ALL ARE WELCOME!

 Come hear about God’s grace and how hope is being restored to so many experiencing mental illness and their families. First Christian Reformed Church of Kingston (310 Kingscourt Ave.) will be hosting a Mental Health Awareness service at 10:00 a.m. on Sunday, June 9. Guest speakers Winnie Visser and June Zwier from Faith and Hope Ministries will share their message of hope. (http://faithandhopeministries.net/index.php). For more information call 613-542-8350 or email office@firstcrckingston.ca.Faith and Hope Ministries

Wednesday 17 April 2013

The Proverbs in Concert 
"Distracted By God"

On Saturday, May 4 at 7-9pm
The Proverbs will be in concert at 
First Christian Reformed Church, 
310 Kingscourt Ave, Kingston, ON.

Refreshments to follow. 
All the proceeds from this concert go to The Mess. 
There will also be an opportunity to purchase some artwork.

The Proverbs’ style of music is Christian Contemporary Gospel.  The group is dynamic, energetic, engaging and is wonderful for all ages. It promises to be a fun filled evening of entertainment!


Contact us at www.themesskingston@yahoo.ca 

Purchase a ticket today for yourself, 
or guest tickets for those who are unable to purchase their own. 
Tickets are $10/person.

We are excited to partner with The Proverbs!!